Looking for inspiring topics to write on, I was surfing on the web in search of one such prompt that gives wings to my writing and changes the views of readers.
I was aware of Write Wribe, and after seeing the prompts like The A21 Campaign #WalkForFreedom and #PeriodPride, and then they announced about #InfertilityNotATaboo.
I am 21 now and let me tell you the truth that when I heard about the word INFERTILITY, I wasn’t knowing anything about this word, this rose my curiosity.
I read about the prompt on 26 September and decided to write on it, One by one I collected basic information on it and when I found about it on WEB, I was really moved ny the behaviour of people towards the ladies who can’t conceive a baby. So this post is written with a purpose to educate myself and others about Infertility and to bring you in notice about INFERTILTY DOST – India’s FIrst websoite that facilitates couples to brave infertilty with support and knowledge.
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Infertility :- UnIike many disease Infertilty is also a disease and nothing A Taboo. Infertility is an inabilty where a couple cant conceive a baby.
Infertility occurs amomg humans, Animals and even plants where they can’t reproduce an offspring by natural means. And to calrify more, Infertility simply means You can’t get pregnant.
In other words, There is a unique pain that comes from preparing a place in your heart for a child that never comes –
Infertilty can be caused by Man, woman or even both so there is no point in blaiming a woman by words such as BANJH – We are living in the 21st century, where our scientists are busy in sending satelities and finding life on other planets, but we are still not dveloped, There are many problems prevailing in our society, among which some are natural and many are caused by humans.
let me tell you my friends that when a doctor diagonise cancer in a patient, he says cancer can be cured only if the person isn’t stressed. Being stress free is 70% medicines to cancer patients. similarly my friends Infertity is one such diseases in which the person facing the problem have higher stress levels than of a cancer patient and more on that hearing words like Banjh or not allowed to attend baby shower functions or any auspicious evnets gives that person a bundle of More stress so my point is If a very close person of your life gets cancer, will you throw him out of the house ? Than why do Indian Mother in laws do this to their daughter In LAws ?
Yes, I am pointing out Mother In Laws because I have seen many mother In laws as the main villian in pretending to the world that they love their daughter in law like a daughter, but they never leave a chance in taunting their bahus, if don’t give them a baby.
Is this her fault that she can’t conceive a baby ? Science says That Infertilty can be caused by both man and woman, than why does the question always cones on women ?
I attended two baby shower functions, in first one a baby girl was adopted.
I loved and was happy to be part of ceremony because the couple were really very powerful and had beautiful thoughts.
The couple couldn’t get a baby in 10 years of marriage, so they went to the local hospital and told the doctors that next time when a baby is born and if her parents don’t accept her and leave her here, you can call us, we will adopt her.
I asked why only her ?
They said because people will never ever leave their baby boy only girls are left and then the nurse takes them to home and take care of them.
And it is my dream to play with a little girl as my first baby, said the gentleman.
After, few days doctors called them and the day a little baby was born, they informed that couple that she is very weak, so do they want to adopt her ?
The couple smiled and reached hospital immediately, adopted that baby with all the formalities, organized all the functions that are done for baby born
And took care of her in such a way that even doctors were surprised when saw that same baby after six months.
She was healthy and happy child now.
I really salute that Couple, and mostly that uncle who always supported his wife and never taunted her.
Instead he was a helping hand for her, and He not only kept the vow he took with his wife at the time of marriage but he also was a gentleman who spread this beautiful message that Infertility is not a taboo, and it is a disease which has adoption as its cure.
The next baby shower I attended was of a relative and inspired by the earlier couple they also adopted a three year old baby from an orphanage, I was really happy to see that one wise man have changed the thoughts of many in a village.
And years later, that aunt send me a what’s app message picture, I checked it.
It was a picture –
The picture was a beautiful rangoli, and it was at an orphanage where girls and boys were taught by the children who were adopted that day.
The mother was proud when she sent me this and I was of proud of that mommy beautiful .
The entire village was happy then and no woman was banned to attend auspicious functions, because every woman is a born mother.
The caring and affection heart does not come only from giving birth to a child, it comes to her once she accept anyone from her heart as a baby and ones she accept him or her, even God can’t class her fragile thoughts.
The best cure to infertility is love.
Love the person suffering from this, Adoption is the simplest solution to it. Support your partner, she is already stressed, don’t stress her more.
Keep your partner Happy –
1. Keep her confident
- Take her to an environment where her mind diverts, when she get to know about her infertility.
3.Miracles happen to those who believe in it.
You can’t have a baby by your own, then what ?
It’s good you can go to an orphanage and adopt a baby now, a boy or a girl or even both.
And see without spoiling your figure, I will say ;).
And by doing this, you will not only get those littles ones but those little ones will get parents like you.
- Smile, life is short
And Infertility is a problem very common, don’t think about it.